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Jenna found out that she\u2019s pregnant and after much consideration, has decided to place her baby for adoption. She feels that she isn\u2019t financially suitable to raise a child and she doesn\u2019t feel ready to raise a baby on her own. She works most days as it is and knows she can\u2019t raise her child as well as someone else could. Her parents are upset because they know they have the financial means to help raise Jenna\u2019s child. They have offered to watch her child while she is at work and to help pay for some of her needs. They don\u2019t want her to place her baby for adoption. <\/span><\/p>\n

Does this situation sound familiar? <\/span><\/h3>\n

Then you may know what it\u2019s like not to receive support from your family for choosing adoption. <\/span>Although her parents wish to help her and her baby out, Jenna still sees adoption as the best option for her and her child. <\/span><\/p>\n

At times it may be hard to find support from your\u00a0family once you decide that adoption is the way to go. It may be hard for them to relate to your situation if it is something they have never experienced themselves. They can\u2019t see things from your viewpoint.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you find that you aren\u2019t getting the support you need from your family because you\u2019ve decided on the path of adoption, don\u2019t worry, there are other ways to receive that support. You can reach out to an adoption agency, like Birthmother\u2019s Choice. They have a hotline available 24\/7 at 1-800-587-3224. Talking to them will help you feel supported and answer any questions you may have. Many adoption agencies will help you through the process of adoption and even afterward, to check in with you and make sure you\u2019re doing okay. <\/span><\/p>\n

Another path to find support would be to reach out to other birth mothers or parents that have faced unplanned pregnancies and listen to their stories. Talk to them about how they worked through the adoption and what they did to find their own support in times of need. There are even online forums that exist for women in this situation, just sign up and talk to others for support. Many forums will have the chance to post anonymously as well if you aren\u2019t comfortable with talking to strangers and share your story and struggles.<\/span><\/p>\n

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