Once you become a mother, your baby is the number one priority. His or her wellbeing will be the only thing you think about. But, you may feel conflicted about what’s truly best for them. If you’re thinking about adoption for your baby, you have a lot of things to consider about your child’s long-term care. You may discover many benefits to your child and if adoption is the right choice for you.

Stable Home

This depends on your current home situation, and if it is secure enough for a child to live in. If you don’t have long-term housing, or live with someone you wouldn’t want your baby around, you may not want that to shape his or her childhood. Consider what your current home situation is like, and if you feel comfortable raising a child now and in the future.

One-On-One Time with Parents 

Quality time spent with family is one of the most important activities in a child’s life. Single and young moms often have trouble giving this time. You may not be able to take maternity leave or stay at home at this point in your life, and that’s okay. You can place your baby in a home where the parents are able to spend more time with them.

School Life

The adoptive parents you choose may be able to give your child the opportunity to go to extra-curricular activities or attend a preschool program. These activities are highly valuable to a child’s development. However, they can be expensive and time-consuming for parents.

Future Education 

Your child may have a better chance of going to college if they live in an adoptive parent’s home. College savings plans and extracurriculars to enhance your child’s education long-term may be more manageable to a stable couple. This is also true for you. Birthmothers are more likely to finish their education if they choose adoption.

Keep in mind that adoption is a choice. Having an unexpected pregnancy doesn’t mean you can’t be an amazing mom. But, sometimes the choice to give yourself and your baby a fresh start is being an amazing mom. Know that whether you choose to keep your baby or place her in a new home, you are still a loving and selfless mother.

Ask for support in making this decision. You can reach out to a friend, a family member, or an adoption counselor for help. The most important thing is to make the decision that’s right for both of you. When you’re ready to make that decision, Birthmother’s Choice is here for you.